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Healing For Victims of Narcissistic Abuse.
When I am referring to narcissists – I am referring to people with a Personality Disorder called Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
A narcissist is a person who has a type of personality disorder.
There are 3 types of personality disorders. They are listed below.
1.Psychopaths – are born with no empathy – and they feel no shame or guilt and usually continue to be this way. All psychopaths are narcissists, but not all narcissists are psychopaths.
2.Sociopaths – learn to have less empathy during life – and they feel very little shame or guilt.
3.Narcissists – lack empathy – are grandiose and act entitled and arrogant. They feel shame and guilt but the issue is that narcissists can have aspects of sociopathic and psychopathic behaviour. So they are harmful.
A narcissist is a person who lacks empathy. Narcissists enjoy hurting people. They usually enjoy the manipulation and problems they create for their partners and people around them. They can get help to manage this but they usually end up manipulating the therapist, so therapy doesn’t really work for them. The Light Axis Healing Sessions that I do are only for the victims of narcissistic abuse. The narcissist usually can’t be helped by energy healing or any therapy for that matter.
The main characteristic of a narcissist is that they are completely selfish and they have no empathy for others. They are only thinking about their needs and wants, and will completely “use” others and discard others, and cheat and lie, so that they “have what they want” and “achieve their goals”. They don’t care who gets hurt in the process. Hence they can be psychopaths.
Narcissists can be men or women. Most narcissistic abuse occurs within romantic relationships towards the person’s romantic partner. Narcissistic abuse can also be directed from a parent to a child.
Narcissistic Abuse From a Romantic Partner To A Romantic Partner.
Narcissistic abuse within relationships can consist of the following behaviours:
-A narcissist may say that they are monogamous, and then actively cheat on their partner.
-The healthy partner being completely verbally hurt and humiliated by the narcissist.
-The healthy partner always being made to feel small, bad, wrong and dumb by the narcissist.
-The healthy partner being controlled by the narcissist partner
-The healthy partner being completely disregarded by the partner
-Compulsive lying about big things like “cheating on the partner”
-The partner gets blamed for all mistakes that the other narcissistic partner has made.
-Love bombing. This is when the narcissist showers the other partner with love, attention, nice words and gifts, only to turn around and become completely cold and spend no time with them at all. They try to buy the illusion of happiness within the relationship.
-The narcissist doesn’t allow their healthy partner to have friends or to in some cases they are not allowed to leave the house. The narcissist can be really insecure.
-The narcissist can engage in Stalking and intimidating behaviour towards the healthy partner.
-The narcissist may bully their partner either by themself, or by using people that their partner knows and turning them against them.
-The narcissist attempts to control every aspect of their partner’s life.
-The narcissist will just say “no” and disregard an attempt of their partner to break up with them. A narcissist can be hard to disconnect from or let go of for this reason.
-A narcissist may psychologically abuse and blackmail their healthy partner to make them feel weak and that they can never leave the relationship.
The Negative Side Effects of Having Been With A Partner Who Was A Narcissist Are Listed Below:
-Feeling like a victim
-Hating all men or Hating all women
-Not valuing yourself
-Not trusting others
-Feeling that it is not safe to have relationships
-Feeling that there is something wrong with you
-Feeling that you did something wrong and you are to blame
-Feeling that the bad partner – was actually good – when they were actually bad
-Head and heart disconnection
-Stress, Anxiety, Worries, Negative Expectations
A Light Axis Healing Session help you to let go of a narcissist from your life. The healing will release all the negative side effects of having had a relationship with a narcissist. The healing will heal your self defense mechanism and your ability to stand up for yourself. The healing will help you attract, receive and have a partner that is 100% right for you easily.
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Written by Max Mancer – Light Axis Healing